The Story Behind ‘How to Get a Married Woman to Have Sex With You (If You’re Her Husband)’ by Relationship Coach Stephan Labossiere

The Story Behind How To Get a Married Woman to Have Sex With You (If You’re Her Husband)

By Stephan Labossiere

Everywhere I look I see people who are acting as if they are ok in their relationship, but in reality are hurt, unhappy, and unfulfilled. I see and hear people making the same mistakes over and over again and actually corrupt other relationships by giving them this horrible advice that has obviously not worked for them. Men are dazed and confused because they do not understand their woman. Women are frustrated and losing hope that their men won’t ever truly understand and embrace who they are. This, and my relationship with GOD, is what drove me to produce a book that can really help get things moving in the right direction and in some cases help eliminate these issues altogether. I needed to do my part to bring relationships and especially marriages to a place where all can get what we all desire and deserve.

When I finally decided to go forth with writing my book How To Get A Married Woman To Have Sex With You…If You’re Her Husband, I knew I had to figure out which route I would take to get published. I immediately started looking into self publishing because I thought this would be the most realistic route to take. I did research on the internet to find the best deal and a reputable company. There were many options and I just needed to pray about which one to go with.

One day I felt the need to see what the internet had to say about trying to get a publisher. This is when I learned about sending out query letters. I found many sites with large directories of literary agents available. They provided useful information that help narrow your search for the right person to query. At this point I figured I had nothing to lose. So I sent out 8 to 10 queries and waited to see if anyone bites. Worst case scenario I will just go back to the self publishing route that I originally intended to do. I received about 4 responses, and though some had encouraging things to say, nobody was prepared to take on my book. While waiting for more responses (which I never did receive) I was told by a friend about a publishing company owned by an old acquaintance. So I sent my query to Firefly Publishing, and they loved the idea. I am grateful for being able to get my book published but I am just as grateful to have gone through the process of exploring my options. It allowed me to learn a lot and be much better equipped for future projects.

About Stephan Labossiere

Stephan Labossiere is a man on a mission to help men and women experience more successful and authentic relationships. He knows firsthand how challenging the male and female dynamic can be and strives to bridge the gap of communication between the sexes. The only male in a family of three older sisters, one of whom is his twin, Stephan has learned early on to take the time to understand and embrace the inner workings of a woman’s mind.

Stephan grew up in Miami, Fl before moving to and settling in Atlanta, Ga. He has worked as an entrepreneur for the past ten years and, most recently, has served as a Life Coach as well as a relationship consultant to married and dating couples. In addition, Stephan is a motivational speaker conducting speaking engagements with topics such as personal and spiritual growth, financial stability and relationships. How To Get A Married Woman To Have Sex With You…If You’re Her Husband is his first book in a series aimed to break down the barriers and turn the battle of the sexes into nothing more than a pillow fight with a mutually pleasing ending.

You can visit Stephan Labossiere’s website at or his blog at  Connect with him at Twitter at and Facebook at

About How To Get a Married Woman To Have Sex With You…If You’re Her Husband

“Just tell me yes…”, is exactly what men all over the world are thinking when they are desperately trying to get intimate with their wives, but are only met with excuse after excuse and rejection after rejection.

Women typically want their men to just “know” what they want or figure it out on their own; so men are left being set up to fail because they are near clueless in regards to what their women are truly looking for.  Due to not truly understanding women, both men and women are left with a lack of intimacy and ultimately unfulfilling relationships. “How to get a married woman to have sex with you…….if you’re her husband” is a revealing book that seeks to bring to light what a lot of women don’t tell their husbands. It is designed to offer a look into what women really need from their men, and help men be better husbands while also getting the sexual benefits they are desperately hoping for.


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